Yesterday, S. showed up at my door in the middle of the night. He started shouting out my name. Then he rang me up on the phone, before proceeding to start banging the door. This even woke my neighbors up. I was awakened – I had been asleep for just under half an hour!
I opened the door and without hearing his explanation completely (he wanted a guitar or something – bull shit) asked him to fuck off and banged the door shut. I was in rage and it took me two hours to get back to sleep. I can’t believe his nerve! This incident of pure inappropriate behavior shaved off an entire two hours from my today! I don’t know why he would do such a thing to me.
Anyway, people who interact with me on a day-to-day basis should know this. I hate the following phenomena. Please avoid doing them if you love me. If you hate me, instead of doing these to me, shoot me in the head.
– Turning up outside my door unannounced
– Calling/banging on my door if I don’t answer
– Calling me up after a long period of incommunicado
In all such cases, communication will be facilitated if you send me a message and let me know in advance. The more detailed you are the better. More often than not, I’ll respond positively.
The one exception to these rules is Vinokur – forever.